In a recent letter to Anne Pierpont Margaret Plantes writes:
The dust seems to have settled with Abigail in South Africa for the UN Climate Conference. I am proud of her courage and boldness, yet as you can surely understand, a bit concerned she doesn't get in over her head. Now that I know what it means to "go viral," my life feels changed. To see your child's name pop on on page after page of Google Search and Twitter--I don't even go on Facebook!--is a true wake up call. And, not surprisingly, Stuart's home page did a lovely job in showing her efforts.
Abigail keeps being elected and selected at Middlebury and beyond, and I see this as truly rooted in her Stuart preparation in the classroom, on the field, and on the stage. I reflect often on how Stuart teaches girls how to be good friends and followers, first and foremost, in their formation as leaders. That a preschooler can watch a fifth grader or an Upper School senior on stage or on television...well, it just gives her a chance to see what is possible for her, if she just keeps following along the path ahead. Sadly, I think today's parents do not understand this. Often they need to have their children be instant leaders or the #1 consistently. And that is not how to best form a leader or good solid character. I was so fortunate that women like you, Sr. de la, Ronnie Williams, Patty Schorr , Jan Baldwin and Anne Soos, could be there to teach me this--then prove it, by providing my girls with the means to succeed.
When I listened to my daughter's voice in an NPR interview after her "intervention," it was not the voice of the girl who started at Stuart, but the voice of the girl who graduated and was launched from there. She was "well begun," as St. Madeleine Sophie would have wanted. http://stream.loe.org/audio/111209/111209borah.mp3 She sounds so strong, poised and determined to make a difference.
- How has Stuart helped to launch you or your daughter?